Things I wish I Knew

Things I Wish I Knew Before Becoming a Girl Scout Leader

When I first volunteered to be a Girl Scout leader, I thought I needed to have all the answers.

I pictured organized meetings, perfectly planned crafts, and girls eagerly completing badges without a hitch. Reality looked a little different—and that’s okay.

If you’re a new leader, here are a few things I wish someone had told me from the beginning.

1. You Don’t Have to Be Perfect

The girls won’t remember if your craft didn’t turn out exactly right or if you forgot a game. They’ll remember how you made them feel.

Show up, be present, and have fun. That’s what matters most.

2. Every Meeting Doesn’t Need to Be Pinterest-Worthy

Some of our best meetings happened with simple supplies, a quick activity, and plenty of laughter.

Focus on connection over perfection.

3. Ask for Help Early

Parents often want to help—they just don’t know how.

Whether it’s bringing snacks, leading an activity, or helping organize an event, don’t be afraid to ask.

4. The Program Is a Guide, Not a Rulebook

Badges, Journeys, and activities are meant to support your troop, not stress you out.

Adapt activities to fit your girls, your schedule, and your troop’s needs.

5. Friendships Matter More Than Badges

Yes, earning badges is exciting. But the real magic happens when girls build confidence, try something new, and create lasting friendships.

That’s the heart of Girl Scouts.

6. It’s Okay to Learn Alongside the Girls

You don’t need to be an expert in camping, STEM, art, or entrepreneurship.

Some of the best moments happen when you say, “I don’t know—let’s figure it out together.”

7. Small Wins Are Still Wins

Maybe you didn’t finish the badge.

Maybe attendance was low.

Maybe the meeting felt a little chaotic.

If the girls laughed, learned something, or felt supported, that’s a successful meeting.

Final Thoughts

Being a Girl Scout leader is one of the most rewarding things I’ve ever done. There will be moments when you feel overwhelmed, underprepared, or unsure of yourself.

Keep going.

The girls don’t need a perfect leader. They need someone who believes in them, encourages them, and shows up.

And if you’re reading this as a new leader, you’re already doing better than you think.